Self-Assessment – What is Your Communication Style?

Evaluate your assertiveness skills on the scale below by answering the following questions as honestly as you can.

1. It is difficult for me to accept a compliment, appreciation, or positive feedback.
   
   Almost never
   Rarely
   Sometimes
   Quite often
   Most of the time
2. I prefer not to criticize others, even if I am sure they are wrong.
   
   Almost never
   Rarely
   Sometimes
   Quite often
   Most of the time
3. I feel comfortable asking my boss for a raise/promotion if I think I deserve it.
   
   Almost never
   Rarely
   Sometimes
   Quite often
   Most of the time
4. I avoid dealing with difficult situations involving confrontation.
   
   Almost never
   Rarely
   Sometimes
   Quite often
   Most of the time
5. I feel people take advantage of me.
   
   Almost never
   Rarely
   Sometimes
   Quite often
   Most of the time
6. Talking to people in positions of authority makes me feel nervous, self-conscious, or unsure of myself.
   
   Almost never
   Rarely
   Sometimes
   Quite often
   Most of the time
7. I feel and act self-confident.
   
   Almost never
   Rarely
   Sometimes
   Quite often
   Most of the time
8. I express my opinions, even if others in the group disagree with me.
   
   Almost never
   Rarely
   Sometimes
   Quite often
   Most of the time
9. I am able to speak openly about my feelings.
   
   Almost never
   Rarely
   Sometimes
   Quite often
   Most of the time
10. If I am not satisfied with the service in a restaurant, I let the waiter know.
    
    Almost never
    Rarely
    Sometimes
    Quite often
    Most of the time
11. Opinionated people make me feel uncomfortable.
    
    Almost never
    Rarely
    Sometimes
    Quite often
    Most of the time
12. Most people around me seem to be more assertive than I am.
    
    Almost never
    Rarely
    Sometimes
    Quite often
    Most of the time
13. I have nothing to lose by asking questions in front of other people.
    
    Almost never
    Rarely
    Sometimes
    Quite often
    Most of the time
14. To meet new people and make new friends, one has to get out, find them, and invest some time and energy.
    
    Almost never
    Rarely
    Sometimes
    Quite often
    Most of the time
15. When an argument is over, I replay the situation in my head, thinking of all the things I could have said, regretting that I hadn’t thought of them then, or wishing I had the guts to say them.
    
    Almost never
    Rarely
    Sometimes
    Quite often
    Most of the time
16. If my neighbors made too much noise, I would let them know.
    
    Almost never
    Rarely
    Sometimes
    Quite often
    Most of the time
17. I feel comfortable saying “No”.
    
    Almost never
    Rarely
    Sometimes
    Quite often
    Most of the time
18. I am able to express my unhappiness with a friend, family member or a spouse if I think it’s justified.
    
    Almost never
    Rarely
    Sometimes
    Quite often
    Most of the time
19. Instead of arguing, I tend to accept responsibility for other people’s mistakes
    
    Almost never
    Rarely
    Sometimes
    Quite often
    Most of the time
20. When a friend or family member borrows something from me and forgets to return it, I feel comfortable reminding her/him.
    
    Almost never
    Rarely
    Sometimes
    Quite often
    Most of the time
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